33 Years

Today, I am 33 years old.…

How cis people can respond after the anti-trans memo

Not sure how you, a cis person, should be responding to the administration’s attacks on transgender folks this week? Here are some tips.…

National Coming Out Day - 2018 Edition

Two years ago I used today to publicly come out as queer, and one year ago I came out as trans & non-binary. And this year I’m here to tell you a not so secret fact: coming out never ends.…

Misogyny As a Weapon of War

Content Warning: The following mentions bullying, harassment, sexual assault, and rape as a weapon of war. If you are a survivor and need help, you can call or chat with people standing by to listen and help at RAINN.I’m not a woman and I don’t want society…

Making Transgender / Genderqueer / Non-binary Inclusion a Priority — A Toolkit for Conference Organizers

When I first wrote Making trans inclusion a priority at conferences I was frustrated at constantly having to advocate for myself & other transgender / genderqueer / non-binary folks at conferences. It felt great to vent, but it also turns out it’s been helpful for some conference organizers as well.…